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Are you yearning for love but finding it in all the wrong places and people? In this video, we dive deep into the reasons behind our patterns of choosing partners who aren't a good fit. Explore the psychology of attraction, the impact of past experiences, and how to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships. Learn practical tips for recognizing red flags, understanding your true needs, and finding a partner who truly complements you. Join me on this journey to discover a healthier, more fulfilling path to love. ==============================

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In this enlightening episode, we explore the 10 key signs that you might be experiencing limerence, a powerful emotional state of infatuation. Join me as I delve into the psychology behind limerence, how it affects your relationships, and what steps you can take to navigate these intense feelings. Whether you're seeking clarity about your emotions or looking to understand someone else's, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for fostering healthier connections. Tune in and empower yourself with the knowledge to recognize and manage limerence.

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We delve into the fascinating and often misunderstood concept of twin flames vs limerence. Are you using the twin flame label to rationalize your intense obsession and limerence for someone? Join me as we unravel the myths surrounding twin flames, distinguish between healthy connections and unhealthy fixations, and provide guidance on how to break free from the cycle of limerence. Discover the path to genuine love and emotional freedom as we explore the fine line between soulful connections and obsessive infatuation.

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Today, we're diving into the captivating world of K-Pop idols and K-Drama actors, exploring the intense feelings of obsession that many fans experience. But what happens when admiration turns into an overwhelming preoccupation? You might be experiencing limerence, a state of infatuation that can take over your life. Join me as we uncover the signs of limerence, understand its impact on your mental and emotional well-being, and provide actionable steps to break free from its grasp. It's time to transform your admiration into healthy appreciation and reclaim your happiness!

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In this episode, we delve deep into the world of limerence and celebrity worship. Many fans experience romantic obsession for the celebrities that they follow and regularly entertain romantic fantasies of them. Whilst these daydreams are usually normal, taken to o far can lead someone down a path of parasocial relationships and limerence, which can be difficult (but not impossible) to undo.

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Jealousy is a very commonly experienced emotion in limerence, that is also very easily overlooked for some reason. We could be jealous for various reasons when limerent and it's this possessiveness and obsession with your limerent object that can make you feel even worse than before. If you've been limerent before or are limerent now, you'd probably have experienced this complex emotion before. Find out why this happens.

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In this video, I talk about one of the most common signs of Limerence: Emotional Unavailability (EU). Are you emotionally unavailable whilst also attracting similar people? I also talk about a simple strategy you can start using today to be more emotionally connected to yourself, and as a result start moving away from emotional unavailability to emotional availability. In doing so, you will find yourself attracting better relationships and partners as well as a love that is what you've been desiring!

Grab these resources: 🎉How Limerent Are You? FREE Quiz: https://abstractedcollective.com/qsm_quiz/how-limerent-are-you/ 🎉Get your limerence questions answered in this workshop: https://abstractedcollective.com/limerence-workshop-1-can-i-experience-love-emotional-unavailability/ 🎉Grab the Breaking up with Limerence Book & Start healing today: https://abstractedcollective.com/how-to-break-up-with-limerence-romantic-obsession/ 🎉Read more Limerence posts on https://abstractedcollective.com/tag/limerence/ 🎉Get 1 on 1 email coaching right here on any limerence issue: https://buy.stripe.com/9AQbK86iggp29Yk01h

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Dating has always been... hard. But what makes the process even harder is how you strangely keep attracting the wrong guys. They just keep appearing, in different shapes, sizes and forms but all cut from the same cloth. Why on earth does this keep happening?

Unlock the secrets behind why you're consistently attracting incompatible dates in this video and dive into a comprehensive exploration of the intricate factors influencing your dating choices and discover actionable insights to transform your approach to relationships.

I lament the complexities of dating dynamics, shedding light on patterns that might be steering you towards mismatched connections. We go on Carol's equally frustrating journey today of meeting the same types of men who aren't right for her, and she's offered two solutions to bring on future dates. These are practical and simple strategies you can make use of too, to recalibrate your dating journey and attract more fulfilling relationships. :)

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Welcome to season 3! This season would be all about reconnecting with the self and how that makes your life better in many ways.

In this audio, we delve deep into the world of limerence and explore 9 commonly experienced emotions that often accompany limerence - this addictive, obsessive, intense form of infatuation. If you've ever wondered about the complex feelings that come with being head over heels in love, this is a must-watch! You’ve also probably felt any number of this at any point in time when you were limerent.

Grab these resources: 🎉How Limerent Are You? FREE Quiz: https://abstractedcollective.com/qsm_quiz/how-limerent-are-you/ 🎉Get your limerence questions answered in this workshop: https://abstractedcollective.com/limerence-workshop-1-can-i-experience-love-emotional-unavailability/ 🎉Grab the Breaking up with Limerence Book & Start healing today: https://abstractedcollective.com/how-to-break-up-with-limerence-romantic-obsession/ 🎉Read more Limerence posts on https://abstractedcollective.com/tag/limerence/ 🎉Get 1 on 1 email coaching right here on any limerence issue: https://buy.stripe.com/9AQbK86iggp29Yk01h

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