S3E26 - Can limerence ever turn into healthy love?

Honestly, the odds are against it

Episode Notes

Is it possible for limerence to evolve into a healthy, long-term relationship? In this video, I’ll break down the key factors that make a relationship healthy and sustainable—and how limerence often falls short. We’ll explore the uncertainty, emotional highs and lows, and fantasy-driven aspects of limerence, and whether it can ever shift into something grounded in trust, stability, and mutual respect. If you’ve ever wondered if your obsession could lead to a real connection, this episode is for you.

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S3E25 - Limerence? Why do you get caught up in it?

And others do not?

Episode Notes

Why do some people find themselves trapped in limerence—obsessing over someone who may not even return their feelings?

In this episode, I dive into the deeper reasons behind limerence, from the uncertainty that keeps us hooked, to the brain’s addiction to dopamine rewards, to the illusion of control we create when we can’t let go. If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t stop thinking about someone, this episode will break down the psychological and emotional forces at play, and help you understand what’s really going on inside your mind.

Listen until the end for practical advice on how to break free from limerence and regain control over your emotions and relationships. Don't forget to subscribe for more insights on love, limerence, and emotional healing!

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S3E24 - Limerence vs Love - What is the difference?

Why limerence isn't just a crush too!

Episode Notes

Have you ever found yourself obsessing over someone, constantly thinking about them, and wondering if it’s love? Or maybe you’ve heard the term limerence but aren’t sure what it really means. In this video, I’ll explain what limerence is and how it’s different from love or a simple crush. If you’re feeling stuck in an emotional whirlwind, this could help you understand what’s really going on and how to move forward toward healthier love.

Also I'll touch on the signs of limerence, how it affects your emotional well-being, and what makes it so different from real, grounded love. Plus, I’ll share practical tips on how to recognize if you’re in limerence and what steps you can take to break free from obsessive thinking. If you have questions about limerence or want more personalized advice, drop them in the comments below!

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S3E23 - How to Heal Limerence with Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

Episode Notes

Are you struggling with limerence—feeling trapped in obsessive thoughts about someone who may not return your feelings? In this video, we dive deep into how Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) can help you break free from the emotional cycle of limerence and take back control of your love life.

I’ll guide you through:

  • What limerence is and how it affects your emotional health
  • How SFBT helps you focus on solutions rather than pain
  • Techniques like the Miracle Question and Scaling Questions to shift your mindset
  • Practical tips for setting goals and creating lasting change

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S3E22 - Healing Your Shadow Self with Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

Embrace your dark side

Episode Notes

Are you ready to confront and heal your shadow self—the parts of you that you’ve hidden, rejected, or feel ashamed of? In this video, we’ll explore how Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) can help you embrace and integrate your shadow self for personal growth and transformation.

I’ll take you through:

  • What the shadow self is and how it affects your life
  • How SFBT helps you focus on solutions and strengths, not problems Techniques like the Miracle Question and Scaling Questions to heal and integrate your shadow
  • Practical steps to set goals and achieve long-lasting healing

Your shadow isn’t something to be feared or suppressed; it’s a part of you that can be a source of power and resilience. Learn how to turn your shadow into a strength through SFBT and start living more authentically!

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S3E21 - How to Heal Retroactive Jealousy with Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

An incredibly helpful psychotherapy technique

Episode Notes

Are thoughts about your partner’s past relationships eating away at you? Retroactive jealousy can be overwhelming, but there are effective ways to heal. In this video, I explain how Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) can help you move past obsessive jealousy and focus on building trust and peace in your relationship.

This video will cover:

  • What retroactive jealousy is and how it affects your mental and emotional well-being
  • How SFBT can shift your mindset from jealousy to trust
  • Powerful techniques like the Miracle Question and Scaling Questions to ease obsessive thoughts
  • Practical steps to set goals and achieve long-term healing

If you’re tired of being controlled by jealousy and want to start living in the present, this video is for you. Learn how SFBT can help you break free from retroactive jealousy and reclaim your emotional freedom :)

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S3E20 - Not healing from Limerence? Here's why

The problem and solution lies within you

Episode Notes

Have you ever wondered why you're stuck in a cycle of obsessive love and can't break free? Limerence can feel all-consuming, but the key to overcoming it might lie in the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding—your shadow self.

In this video, I'll dive abit deeper into the connection between limerence and shadow work. We'll explore how hidden fears, insecurities, and unacknowledged desires can keep you stuck in limerent obsession. When we ignore or deny our shadow self, we give it more power, making it harder to break free from the grip of limerence. But by acknowledging and working with these hidden parts, you can find the clarity and emotional freedom you’ve been searching for.

What you’ll learn in this video: - What the shadow self is and why it's crucial for understanding your patterns of obsession. - How unresolved fears and traumas contribute to your limerence. - Practical steps for embracing your shadow self through shadow work techniques.

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S3E19 - How to Keep Your Energy High when Life gets Tough

Hard times don't last long

Episode Notes

Feeling drained or overwhelmed? You're not alone! In this video, I round up a couple of incredibly useful energy-healing techniques that are easy and practical methods to you can start using to boost your energy and keep your vibes high, even when life feels like it’s pulling you down!

From grounding techniques to energy protection and simple self-care practices, discover the secrets to maintaining your inner peace and staying vibrant no matter what comes your way. Whether you’re dealing with stressful situations, feeling emotionally exhausted, or just want to enhance your overall well-being, these tips will help you regain control and power up your energy.

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S3E18 - How you became limerent in the first place?

Hint: have you struggled with feeling invisible all your life?

Episode Notes

Have you ever felt completely invisible in your love life? Or found yourself stuck in obsessive, one-sided feelings for someone who doesn’t even seem to notice you? You might be experiencing limerence—a powerful form of infatuation that often goes hand-in-hand with feeling unseen, both in love and in life.

In this audio, we’ll explore how limerence has links to emotional invisibility. I’ll discuss the ways in which people who are limerent often keep themselves hidden, out of fear of rejection, low self-worth, or staying stuck in one-sided relationships. If you're struggling with limerence, this video will also give you practical steps to help break free, become more visible, and start attracting healthy, mutual love. ✨

In this audio, you’ll learn: - What limerence is and how limerence is linked to invisibility in life - Why we stay in fantasy relationships instead of embracing real love - How to stop hiding and start being seen in your relationships If you’ve ever wondered why love seems out of reach, this video will provide insights and tools to help you make meaningful changes.

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S3E17 - 7 Signs of Retroactive Jealousy: How to Recognize and Overcome It

Episode Notes

Struggling with retroactive jealousy? Are intrusive thoughts about your partner's past causing anxiety and insecurity? 💔 In this video, we dive deep into the signs, symptoms, and causes of retroactive jealousy. Learn how to identify if you're experiencing it, and understand its impact on your relationships. It's time to overcome retroactive jealousy and reclaim your peace of mind!

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